So before I get started on my area, I can update everyone on
Ana and Angel. Ana won't get baptized, and Angel had a baptism set up for this Sunday.
Then on Sunday morning, his boss sent him to Arizona for four weeks, too bad. So
much stress with that family. I found out Vanessa is moving to Vegas. I think it's
probably so Liz can make more money working in clubs, so I think that means she isn't getting baptized anytime soon.
So missionaries do dumb things sometimes. We cleaned “The Sink”
again this week. We went for lunch, because Elder Ward said he and his
companion had cleaned it in 12 minutes. (It's like a gallon of ice cream, two
bananas and a lot of toppings..maybe a little more but around there.) So I
texted a few members our zone (building zone unity), and we cleaned it in 10
minutes. Elder Salazar is still new, so he can't eat very much, so I ate about
75% of the ice cream; you can all be proud of me that I learned how to be a
gluttonous pig in the mission field. I don't think we ate sugar for two days afterwards.
I just couldn't make myself do it.
We went to an 8-year-old baptism on Saturday. She turns nine
years old in a month, so it was almost a convert baptism, ha-ha. Oh well; it
was still good to go. She had asked me to confirm her, so I did that. Utah
baptisms for kids are funny. They do it the first Sunday of every month. There
were like 12 kids that had to get baptized. All the people filled the whole
chapel, and they send us into the font room by ward. (They send the Spanish
ward in first, because we are incapable of waiting reverently.) I realized more
this week that I was sent to the Spanish program, so I can learn to chill out
and not get so stressed and ocd about what others are doing. I kind of thought
about it and was surprised when my heart rate wasn't even raised when we didn't
have one single investigator show up until ten minutes after the meeting
started.
We taught the Salazar family finally. They are a family of
four that was being taught by missionaries in another area, and the battle
these past two months was getting them to our ward. So we got to teach a
lesson. I finally get why they have never progressed. We were there for 90
minutes, and I spoke for about five minutes. The wife talks more than anyone I
have ever met in my entire life. At one point, sixty minutes in, I had my hand
on the knee of the member I brought as he is teaching everything he knows about
temples, and the other hand up trying to quiet down the family, so I can get in
at least share my testimony. If I don't learn patience with them, then I never
will. The hard thing with them is that they want to keep learning, but every
time we invite them to do something, they talk for ten minutes explaining why
they won't do it. They love the church and have a testimony, but they just want
to procrastinate. Either way, we got them to church! It was kind of just a
funny experience all together looking back about how much I wasn't part of the
lessons. (Elder Salazar wasn't there. We had been double booked that night).
We had a great week though: more investigators in sacrament
than I have ever had, more lessons than I have ever taught, and the happiest I
have ever been.
Going down the list of people we are working with:
Hernan pulled off his signature move once again and
disappeared! I had my zone leader do the interview, but he had a Mexican missionary
who is pretty new translate for him since my zone leader is English. I wasn't
there, because we had a lesson. But they called and told me it didn't go to
well. He just went off for ten minutes, and my zone leader couldn't do anything,
because he didn't understand and the other missionary wasn't translating he was
just listening. Anyway, he said he wanted to wait and do it later. They set us
up a follow up lesson, and he wasn't there. He told us he would go to church on
the phone but didn't come and hasn't been home. So we don't know what happened
to him. Hopefully we find him soon.
The Villalobo’s family is pretty new I think. The husband is
a member, and the wife and kid aren't. She is working on getting divorced, and
once that happens she wants to get baptized. The nine-year-old kid, Adrian,
should get baptized in a couple weeks. They are pretty solid. The dad was very
hesitant about coming back to church, but we made daily contact, set up an FHE
with the primary president, and they came to church. Not having a ward mission
leader is hard, but it really keeps me organized and learning the most effective
ways to organize everything. I have learned a lot serving here.
They still need to call a new ward mission leader though; the
stake has trained ours a few times, and he just won't do anything or even come
to church. Oh well, we are getting along fine. I talked to the high counsel rep
that speaks Spanish, and he is coming to ward council this Sunday to be able to
encourage a shorter meeting than 3 hours, starting on time, everyone showing
up, and letting the missionaries go first so we can head out once we are done.
It makes us sound really selfish trying to make it all about us, and I almost
feel bad. I just walk into a ward they have been in for years, and I take over
their ward council.
The Morales family came to church again. Paula's baptism is
set up for next Saturday. Her dad talked to the bishop, and he is cleared to
baptize her! That was pretty exciting to hear. I don't want to jynx it, but I
think all will go well there.
The Torrez family will probably be dropped soon. They lie
about appointments and going to church, but no matter how forward I am with
them, they refuse to say whether or not they are interested. They promised Saturday
night and Sunday morning to go and didn't come, and they couldn't even think of
an excuse, they just "couldn't make it." They are just to shy to open
up when we try to discern, so there's not much we can do.
The Alejandre family is a new one as well. The zone leaders
texted us at 8:45 that they saw a "brown family" outside, and we went
straight there. It turns out they moved and hadn't been to church since then,
so they weren't on record, but they are less active and want us to baptize
their nine-year-old. Tde dad was really iffy about coming back to church, but
we gave a little push with daily contact and everything, and they did make it
to church. It wasn't easy. We had a long conversation on the phone (the mom and
I) an hour before church started, because they said the little boys’ white
shirts didn't fit, so they would go next week. We had a talk about how
she is the missionary of her home and yadda yadda yadda and anyways, they came
on Sunday and just left after sacrament.
Victoria is somehow magically starting to progress. She told
me "God is starting to work on me," and she promised to go to church
but didn't come. We should have gotten a fellowshiper; that's our fault.
Actually, we did get her one, but they just didn't go, ha-ha. We should have
gotten a more reliable fellowshiper.
We spoke on Sunday, I spoke on fulfilling your purpose as a
missionary by showing love to others. I have really been praying hard this week
for more love. I feel like sometime when I teach, I don't have emotion and
don't know how to change that. Other people get teary eyed a lot, and it doesn't
really phase me. I just keep talking or wait for them to finish crying or
whatever. I don't know that I have ever been even close to crying while
teaching. I'm not saying I want to start crying or anything, but I kind of
wonder why that is?
Anyways that's about it for now.
Love you all,
Elder Bassett
BTW, President Hiers was counseling with his zone leaders
and decided he didn't like the name QGC (quality gospel conversation) and wants
to change it to something that defines it better...his idea was to start
calling it a TTI. (TTI is what we called them on our mission in Arizona. We
found it in PMG where it says you should Teach, Testify, and Invite everyone
you see.)
Emily sent me a package! Tell her thank you. I love that she
sends me so many pictures!
{Because last week I teased Elder Bassett about his English, he
responded with this: “I have been blessed with a great gift of tongues…mainly
because of the wide variety of south/central American accents I have served
with. Tell the kids to study Spanish grammar in school. Because I did so well
in high school, I am good at Spanish grammar and teaching others (greenies)
Spanish. (I honestly don't say that to brag. My Spanish isn't perfect, and I
know that very well. I am just trying to show how important is to pay attention
in your foreign language classes in school; it helps my Spanish quite a bit to
know how much I know from school. Other missionaries serving in foreign
countries have a much bigger vocabulary than I do...I just happen to be good at
grammar.)”}
Elder Bassett asked: Are we about to start a third world war or are all our
investigators/members just paranoid?
{The response: Paranoid. Nothing is going to happen.
Russia just pulled off a negotiation with Syria today which ended up making
Obama look like the weakling that he is in the world. No bombings this week.}
Quote of the week…I'll translate it into English... (crazy
Mexican lady) "There are two types of people in this world, rich and poor.
The rich ones are republicans, and the poor ones are democrats. All republicans
hate Catholics...ALL of them. We live in Utah, and they are all republicans
that's why they don't like Catholics"...I wish she had been my econ
teacher; she has things figured out.
Mom, what a fantastic letter! I like the little updates and
stories about my siblings; send some more if you have time. I wish I could have
seen Jeff at his game. I can imagine exactly how he felt trying to keep a
straight face but wanting to have a big smile but still trying to stay cool
like it wasn't a big deal. I'm sad to hear about Geno. I always worry about
Amanda. I don't know why; she is
kind of like me in a way. Jeff is
hitting that same spot I hit; he is exactly like me. He will be fine though;
push him hard. I hope dad is well and not too stressed. Keep reminding him to
be happy and make his family laugh. Those are the times when he is the most
happy. I'm sure Brandon is fine. I never ever worry about him...everyone else except
for him. I don't know why, I just know he will be fine with whatever he has to
handle. I don't know how you manage so much. They sure do like to keep you
busy. I hope you are recognizing your page 10 pmg types of successes that happen
everyday in your life. Thanks for the letter!
By the way I am not going to ask for anything this
week. I feel like you probably think I just get on every week to send a letter
and then ask you to give me something. I will stop doing that; I'm too much of
a momma's boy.
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